There are so many quirky but awesome things our kids with autism poses. Some of them are annoying (many of them) and some are quite amazing. Our son Collin has become an incredible speller. He can spell the most ridiculous words! Prestidigitation, synecdoche, and embrocation just to name a few(and he is only 6). In fact, he just spelled these for me as I type because I asked him to spell some of his favorite words. So many times when I talk to someone about Collin they ask me "what is his thing"? It is an interesting concept, "his gift, or talent, or thing". I think so many people are catching onto these wonderful gifts our children have. It is so nice to recognize these positive actions they poses.I have heard of children who are experts in the construction and operation of elevators; kids who are amazing with numbers, reading, music, art ect.... I think it is wonderful to specialize in something. So many of us are pulled in so many directions that I think many people feel as if they can never give 100% to anything. As a founder of Maximum Potential Kids, a mom, a wife, homeowner, daughter, sister, aunt, friend, CrossFit trainer ect.... I feel as if no one , or job, or thing gets 100%. Collin has the ability, (as ironic as this sounds for someone with autism) to focus on the one thing he wants to do or "his thing". If Collin wants to spell, he can shut out anything else at that time and spell like crazy. Of course this is not always appropriate, but what a gift! These kids with these amazing talents can be a great asset to others in the work place one day. I m sure many businesses would love to have someone who could shut out everything to just do their job 100% when needed. This is another life lesson Collin is teaching me. I am seeing reduction in the value of multi-tasking and an appropriate need for focus on one thing, or the thing I need to do at that time. Giving 100% towards one task, or person, or job, or chore is providing a much better outcome with little time spent re-doing something and in the end is far better than multi-tasking all the time. I am now learning that one of those things need to be ME! I encourage anyone to decide what they want to be a "champ" at and go for some time with 100% attention towards your goal and see the results.
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